FCould it be that I was selfish or egotistical in my relations and attitude ??, I don’t think so.. I had tried hard, to retrospect broad enough but yet I never seem to get an answer to the question of WHAT I DID WRONG THAT MADE ME DESERVE SUCH AN UNFAIR TREATMENT FROM HIM.. these are regretfully spoken words properly given off in the moments of intense heart break and emotional disappointment.. She initially perceived how handsome and appealing his whole personality was but now she realized that WHAT MATTERS FIRST IS CHARACTER NOT APPEARANCE.. Upon engaging this guy as an intimate friend, she had a knowledge of how wayward he is, may be LOVE BLINDFOLDED HER.. so much that she couldn’t quit the relationship soon enough..she decided to drift along the shadows of relationship until she was jilted upon by this handsome, innocent looking guy.. LOOKS ARE DECEPTIVE.. To be on the safer side of life focus on character, but to be on the sadder side of life keep seeking for beautiful and handsome personalities.. To sound clearer,, in our choices of future partner, the first thing we’re expected to look out for is such persons With,, emotional maturity,, endurance of hardiness,,, complacency,, attitude toward God,, readiness to forgive ,,a vision ~driven person.. However, straighten, I don’t mean to utterly disregard, the necessity of getting a good looking partner,, but that I think should be secondary and never ultimate.. BEAUTY FADES OUT, BUT CHARACTER ENDURES..why should any wise man, make something temporary and short lived his greatest priority.. THINK.. and besides who decides who is good looking.. THE BEHOLDER… THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE THOSE WITH REFINED CHARACTERS…as a little psychologist I’ve learnt that,, our human perception of the world around us, might not be what we think it is..it might only be another.. So why are you so uptight with something you’re not confidently certain about.. Do you know that.. A GUY COULD BE HANDSOME AND YET STUPID.. just as a lady could be beautiful and yet irritating.. You can always learn to play safe,, on critical issues by making decisions on the right basis and standards .. But hold on can’t character also be deceptive too ??… True or false I would sort that out in my next piece…